Built for LGBTQ+ chosen family

If you went quiet for three days, who would actually notice?

Not family two states away. Not a landlord. The friends who'd actually come looking, if they knew to. Chosen Kin makes sure they do, and keeps them ready with exactly what they'd need to act.

Two close friends laughing together at home

Living alone isn't the risk. Being unaccounted for is.

You're close with your friends. They'd absolutely show up for you. But right now, nobody's actually in charge of noticing if something's wrong, and even if they did notice, they might not know who else to call, whether you have a pet who needs feeding, or what to actually do once they're standing in your apartment.

That gap isn't about paperwork. It's about nobody having the job. Chosen Kin gives that job to someone you already trust, and keeps them ready for it.

58%
of LGBTQ+ adults 45+ act as caregivers for friends and chosen family, a role nobody formally assigns but someone still has to carry
0
people automatically notified if you go quiet, unless you've specifically told someone that's their job
How it works

Someone gets the job of noticing. And gets ready for it.

First

Regular check-ins, from an AI that remembers

By text, on your schedule. It's how we know you're okay, and it keeps everything below current without a form to fill out.

Then

One person, fully briefed

You name who'd actually show up for you. We keep them ready: how to reach you, who else to call, pet or home care instructions, key facts like allergies and medications.

If you go quiet

They hear from us first

Miss enough check-ins and that person gets a message, not a stranger guessing. If it's real, and you've stored real documents with us, Premium releases those too, verified first, always something you can call off yourself.

Two close friends, the kind of people who would actually notice
What Core actually tracks

Nothing here requires you to have a will. It just requires you to have people.

  • Emergency contact, always current, not buried in an old group chat
  • Pet or home care instructions, so nothing's left stranded
  • Key facts like allergies, medications, and blood type
  • Who else to call, and in what order
Pricing

A lawyer drafts it once. Chosen Kin keeps it current and ready, for less than one visit back.

Core
$30/mo
Know what matters, and where it lives.
  • Weekly AI check-ins
  • Living info index (emergency contact, pet care, key facts)
  • One welfare-check contact
  • Missed check-in alerts
Join the waitlist

Chosen Kin stores and releases documents you've already had properly prepared. We're not a law firm and don't draft or provide legal advice. Premium includes a referral to an attorney if you don't have one yet.

Built carefully, on purpose

Nothing releases without you.

You can always cancel it

Every release opens a waiting window you control. If you're fine, you say so, and nothing happens automatically.

Encrypted, and kept separate

Premium documents live apart from your everyday conversation history, under stricter access from the moment they're uploaded.

You choose who's told what

No assumptions about next of kin. No one learns anything about you that you didn't explicitly decide to share.